SEX TIP OF THE DAY! - The 69'er!

If one of you has to be on top in the 69 position, it should always be the girl. Chances are, you are heavier than she is and allowing her to take the top position will prevent her from being crushed if the 69 session takes a while, or if you get too carried away. Another benefit of her being on top is that she can control the speed, depth and angle of penetration, so you’re less likely to accidentally gag her (this CAN happen!). Letting her have control means better oral pleasure for you.The 69 can also be done with both of you laying on your sides, which may be a more comfortable option if you plan to keep it going for a longer period of time. This way, you can use each other’s inner thighs as pillows for your heads, making the arrangement very comfy for a more drawn out 69 session.

Using your fingers to tease her clit.....

Using your fingers to please her....

Probably the most common mistake men do when stimulating women's clits with their fingers is when they imitate their penis stimulation. When it comes to her clit, hard stimulation can ruin her pleasure. First of all, explore her genitals, finding her clitoris, her labia and the opening of vagina. Do not start right with clitoral stimulation, give her some time to build up the arousal

Something for the weekend!

TODAYS HOT SEX TIP!



When between her legs, just as you appreciate her licking more than just your penis, she’d like you to go for more than her clit tip. Run your tongue around her clitoral head, concentrating on the 10 o’ clock and 2 o’clock marks on either side, and then gently slip your tongue beneath the hood, you’ll have her moaning!


The best way to pull this off is to have her straddle your face as you lay on your back - she can lean into the headboard so she can drive the action and be in charge.

Its not the size of your penis.....its what you do with it....

I know that many of you guys worry about the size of your penis - although, in my experience, having a big cock doesnt necessarily make you the best lover.......but still, for those that need some help getting over this emotionally, heres my info on making your cock larger......

Stretching is probably the best known penis enlargement method, and has bee n the most commonly used over time. Grasping the base of your penis and then gently force the hand towards the head of the penis, causing the whole member to swell under the increased blood pressure. The penis should never be fully erect (this is NOT masturbation) - it must be partially flaccid in order for the tissue to stretch.
A common regime might involve stretching only 20 – 30 minutes per day, two or three days in a row, with a rest day taken before starting again. Over-rubbing can result in soreness, and excessive abrasion in the shedding of skin from the penis; these conditions can be alleviated by using a lubricant during sessions. If bruising occurs, take a couple of days off, and wait until the penis fully heals before continuing.

Another Sex tip

Sex Tip - Ladies - take oral sex to a whole new level by caressing his arse cheeks as you're going down on him. Have him lie on his back, his knees bent and spread apart. Slide your hands under his bottom, pumping your fingertips into his skin gingerly. Then take the tip of his penis into your mouth, sucking him in and out at the same speed as your fingers are pumping his backside

Greetings All!

My name is Katy and im not shy!

Its a good job really, coz my day job is writing a sex column for womens magazines (anonymously) and also writing sex books. I deal with many subjects day to day that people obviously feel shy about - but they would be surprised how many are dealing with the same problems and issues that they are .....

Hence my blog........I want to make it informative, witty, HONEST and supply you with information and tips to make your sex life better than ever!!

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Have fun peeps and please, enjoy my sex tip of the day (literally!)...

SEX TIP OF THE DAY

Proper hip movement - Guys - rock her world! Once you’ve placed your penis as deep inside her as you can, grind your hips in a spiral fashion -- like a screw -- and you’ll be sure to hit the hidden parts of her clit that give her 90% of her orgasmic sensations, with the little pearl being only the tip of the iceberg. This will not only increase sensation for her - but also stimulate you more than just the traditional thrusting method.......im getting wet just thinking about it.......