Today - Do it on the Sofa (not during the football, or Corrie tho......!!)

Him: Sit your man down on the sofa. His feet must touch the floor.

You: Sit on top of him, facing him. Show him who's in charge - take the lead. Lay back on his legs and support yourself on your arms to keep your balance. Open and close your thighs, setting the rhythm yourself.Why is it so good? You're in control. You decide the rhythm that works for you and discover what you like. You give him a very hot view of your body in action!

Tip: If he's well wedged into the backrest, he can hold your legs with one hand and caress your clit with the other.

Its a BIG sex chat today, my darlings - it covers a lot, but its important to talk about.....MASTURBATION

Experts say that just about every man who can masturbate does -and theres no reason why not! You don't need an expert to tell you that solo sex feels good, relieves stress, and is a great sleep aid. But here are five things you may not know about your hand job...

1. There's no such thing as "abnormal" masturbation.
Men often wonder if there's something abnormal about the way they masturbate. But experts point out that men show great variations in both frequency and technique.

2. Masturbation is very safe -- but not entirely safe.
Unlike sex with a partner, masturbation can't give you a sexually transmitted disease. Nor will it subject you to the muscle strains, pokes in the eye, and awkward moments that can come with partner sex. But masturbation safety isn't guaranteed. Frequent or overly vigorous masturbation can irritate the skin of the penis, and less well known is that habitually masturbating face down -- for example, by thrusting against a sheet, pillow, or even a carpeted floor -- can injure the urethra in such a way that urine exits the penis not in a stream but in a hard-to-control spray. (OUCH!!) In certain extremely rare instances, masturbation and partner sex alike can cause penile fracture if done roughly - this is a medical emergency, and it often necessitates surgery.

3. Solo sex can supercharge your sex life -- or scuttle it.
For various reasons, solo sex can be a real boon to sex with a partner. It helps teach men about their own sexual response -- what feels good to them and what doesn't -- so they will be better able to explain to their partners just how they like to be touched. It helps men learn to recognize the "moment of inevitability" just before orgasm and helps teach them how to avoid premature ejaculation. It's also a great coping mechanism for any man whose partner is unavailable for sex -- because of absence or illness -- or has a sex drive that doesn't quite match his own
However, some men become so obsessed with solo sex that they begin to lose interest in having sex with their partner. But experts are quick to point out that masturbation is perfectly OK even for men in a committed relationship. We cant assume that just because a man masturbates that there is a problem with his primary relationship.

4. Certain forms of masturbation can lead to sexual dysfunction.
Experts warn that men who frequently stimulate themselves in ways that don't simulate sex with a partner -- for example, stroking very rapidly or with great pressure or friction -- can develop retarded ejaculation. That's a type of sexual dysfunction in which it is difficult or even impossible to climax during partnered sex.

5. Masturbation may affect the risk for prostate cancer.
The relationship between masturbation and prostate cancer is a bit hazy.
A 2003 Australian study published in BJU International linked frequent ejaculation early in life with reduced risk for prostate cancer later on. But in a 2004 study published in The Journal of the American Medical Association, a researcher reported that "ejaculation frequency is not related to increased risk of prostate cancer." In both these studies, ejaculation frequency included sexual intercourse and masturbation.
In a study published this past January in BJU International, researchers found that frequent masturbation in young men raised the risk for prostate cancer but that frequent masturbation in older men lowered the risk. Sexual intercourse did not affect prostate cancer risk.
The researchers theorize that it may not be the masturbation itself which is increasing risk of prostate cancer in men who masturbate frequently in their 20s and 30s. Men who masturbate more may do so because they have high levels of male sex hormones -- and young men genetically predisposed to have hormone-sensitive prostate cancer will be at higher risk if they have more male hormones. In men over age 50, the researchers theorize, frequent masturbation helps drain the prostate of fluids that may contain cancer-causing substances.

PHEW - well done for hanging in there........as ever, if you have any comments, questions or a problem you need a hand with (NOT literally, lads!) then please email me - hotwet666@hotmail.com. Have a good one ;0)

SEX TIP OF THE DAY! - The 69'er!

If one of you has to be on top in the 69 position, it should always be the girl. Chances are, you are heavier than she is and allowing her to take the top position will prevent her from being crushed if the 69 session takes a while, or if you get too carried away. Another benefit of her being on top is that she can control the speed, depth and angle of penetration, so you’re less likely to accidentally gag her (this CAN happen!). Letting her have control means better oral pleasure for you.The 69 can also be done with both of you laying on your sides, which may be a more comfortable option if you plan to keep it going for a longer period of time. This way, you can use each other’s inner thighs as pillows for your heads, making the arrangement very comfy for a more drawn out 69 session.

Oral Fun......

TODAYS SEX TIP

When she's about to climax during oral sex, flick your tongue really fast along the length of her clitoris. A few seconds of this and the floor will shake for her!!


Why it works: Most men think of the clitoris as just a little bud under the hood, but it actually extends deep inside a woman's body. When you flick your tongue quickly along its shaft, you're not only covering more territory, you're also creating vibrations that help carry your stimulation beyond the tongue's reach.

How to do it: The key here is to make sure that the clitoral hood is out of the way. Don't be afraid to pull it back gently and then make quick, darting motions with your tongue as far down along the tiny shaft as your tongue can go.