Hi. A friend of ours was telling us how much she wanted a 3some. Her bf also did but obviously both of them wanted the extra person to be the opposite sex. Next day after being involved in the arguement we shared the same views and thought everyone would be happy if we just had a 4some. We shared the idea and everyone was up for it except our friend who's gone off it and won't say why. She cant be nervous about being naked round us as we always call in on her in birthday suit. So my question is why has she changed her mind and gone against the idea of ever having 3 some or more and is there a chance we including her bf can help reverse her mind? thanks
Dear KS,
Thanks for your enquiry!!
It sounds to me like you friend has a serious case of cold feet!! Whilst the idea of her having a 3 some, with her BF and another bloke sounded attractive to her - apparently the idea of having a 3 some with her BF and another lady didnt!!
For this very same reason, I dont think that she is going to be up for having a 4some either - this isn't anything to do with her shyness over being naked in front of you (she has already proved she is OK with that!), I believe that it is more to do with her BF being "involved" in the act with another woman.
I really can't see her changing her mind on this, to be honest, ESPECIALLY if you are planning on including the BF - I think her reluctance to see him with someone else is the reason for the "cold feet". Its probably for the best if you and your partner seek a 4some with another couple, where BOTH of them are open to the suggestion.
Good luck and please dont hesitate to get back in touch if you need any further help.
Kind regards,
Katy
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