Anal Sex

Hi!! Its the weekend, so I thought I would cover something different today - ANAL SEX

Learn the dangers of anal sex, as well as the benefits of it. There are some very valid reasons why you should and shouldn't do anal. This comprehensive list will help you to decide if anal penetration is right for you.
So why would anyone want to have anal sex? For one thing, the anus is a highly erotic area, with tons of nerve endings. These nerve endings, when stimulated the right way, can cause very pleasureable feelings.
Another reason to have anal sex (at least for gay men) is because of anatomy. There is no vagina to have regular vaginal sex with, so the standard is anal sex.
Men also tend to like it because of the very tight feeling of an anus hugging their penis. Such a tight squeeze on their penis produces a wonderful feeling, that they just can't experience with a vagina.

The main reason someone will not be into anal sex is PAIN! Lets face it, the anus was designed as a one-way street. Nothing is really supposed to go up there. However, with time and experience the pain factor will subside, and the receiving partner will get used to it.

As with all sexual activities - please, please protect yourself.....this area is filled with bacteria that you do not want to be spread around. This is one of the main dangers of anal sex. If engaging in anal, do it safely.

Anal penetration can be a very exciting, pleasureable, and intimate act between two people who care about each other, but only if both partners agree that they really want it.
Communicating openly with your partner is the key. If one partner has a problem with anal that they just can't get over, don't push the issue anymore. Respect your partner's feelings, even if it means you'll never get to experience anal sex.

Today - Do it on the Sofa (not during the football, or Corrie tho......!!)

Him: Sit your man down on the sofa. His feet must touch the floor.

You: Sit on top of him, facing him. Show him who's in charge - take the lead. Lay back on his legs and support yourself on your arms to keep your balance. Open and close your thighs, setting the rhythm yourself.Why is it so good? You're in control. You decide the rhythm that works for you and discover what you like. You give him a very hot view of your body in action!

Tip: If he's well wedged into the backrest, he can hold your legs with one hand and caress your clit with the other.

The Lusty Frog Sex Position!

How to do todays sex position - the lusty frog!!

Straddle your man (lying on his back) and slowly lower yourself onto his pelvis, sliding his penis inside you as you go. But rather than sitting down in a straddle position, raise yourself up off him in a squatting position. Put your hands on his thighs, stomach, rib cage or upper chest for support. Start by sliding yourself up and down his penis by lifting your lower body up and down — a totally different motion than going forward and back like normal woman-on-top. Vary your pace, starting with some fast, teasingly shallow thrusts that touch only the tip of his penis, then move down into deep, slower thrusts that envelop him completely. The fabulous friction you'll create will give you the double bonus of amazing sensations all along the edge of your vaginal opening when you pump shallow and on your G-spot when you pump deep. And if you try leaning backward and resting your hands on his thighs and knees, the sensation will even spread to your clitoris — and the natural arching of your back will open up your body for him to fondle.

Its a BIG sex chat today, my darlings - it covers a lot, but its important to talk about.....MASTURBATION

Experts say that just about every man who can masturbate does -and theres no reason why not! You don't need an expert to tell you that solo sex feels good, relieves stress, and is a great sleep aid. But here are five things you may not know about your hand job...

1. There's no such thing as "abnormal" masturbation.
Men often wonder if there's something abnormal about the way they masturbate. But experts point out that men show great variations in both frequency and technique.

2. Masturbation is very safe -- but not entirely safe.
Unlike sex with a partner, masturbation can't give you a sexually transmitted disease. Nor will it subject you to the muscle strains, pokes in the eye, and awkward moments that can come with partner sex. But masturbation safety isn't guaranteed. Frequent or overly vigorous masturbation can irritate the skin of the penis, and less well known is that habitually masturbating face down -- for example, by thrusting against a sheet, pillow, or even a carpeted floor -- can injure the urethra in such a way that urine exits the penis not in a stream but in a hard-to-control spray. (OUCH!!) In certain extremely rare instances, masturbation and partner sex alike can cause penile fracture if done roughly - this is a medical emergency, and it often necessitates surgery.

3. Solo sex can supercharge your sex life -- or scuttle it.
For various reasons, solo sex can be a real boon to sex with a partner. It helps teach men about their own sexual response -- what feels good to them and what doesn't -- so they will be better able to explain to their partners just how they like to be touched. It helps men learn to recognize the "moment of inevitability" just before orgasm and helps teach them how to avoid premature ejaculation. It's also a great coping mechanism for any man whose partner is unavailable for sex -- because of absence or illness -- or has a sex drive that doesn't quite match his own
However, some men become so obsessed with solo sex that they begin to lose interest in having sex with their partner. But experts are quick to point out that masturbation is perfectly OK even for men in a committed relationship. We cant assume that just because a man masturbates that there is a problem with his primary relationship.

4. Certain forms of masturbation can lead to sexual dysfunction.
Experts warn that men who frequently stimulate themselves in ways that don't simulate sex with a partner -- for example, stroking very rapidly or with great pressure or friction -- can develop retarded ejaculation. That's a type of sexual dysfunction in which it is difficult or even impossible to climax during partnered sex.

5. Masturbation may affect the risk for prostate cancer.
The relationship between masturbation and prostate cancer is a bit hazy.
A 2003 Australian study published in BJU International linked frequent ejaculation early in life with reduced risk for prostate cancer later on. But in a 2004 study published in The Journal of the American Medical Association, a researcher reported that "ejaculation frequency is not related to increased risk of prostate cancer." In both these studies, ejaculation frequency included sexual intercourse and masturbation.
In a study published this past January in BJU International, researchers found that frequent masturbation in young men raised the risk for prostate cancer but that frequent masturbation in older men lowered the risk. Sexual intercourse did not affect prostate cancer risk.
The researchers theorize that it may not be the masturbation itself which is increasing risk of prostate cancer in men who masturbate frequently in their 20s and 30s. Men who masturbate more may do so because they have high levels of male sex hormones -- and young men genetically predisposed to have hormone-sensitive prostate cancer will be at higher risk if they have more male hormones. In men over age 50, the researchers theorize, frequent masturbation helps drain the prostate of fluids that may contain cancer-causing substances.

PHEW - well done for hanging in there........as ever, if you have any comments, questions or a problem you need a hand with (NOT literally, lads!) then please email me - hotwet666@hotmail.com. Have a good one ;0)

TODAYS SEX POSITION - THE REVERSE COWGIRL!

This one gives 'bum men' a visual treat. You need to make sure you get the angle right but it's worth it. The woman sits astride the man and faces his feet, to straddle him 'backwards'. She then puts her hands on his knees or on either side of him for support. He gets a great view of her buttocks and she gets great G-spot stimulation. The woman should move slowly in this position so that the penis doesn't bend back too far. This one can take a bit of practise - but its worth it!

Another good way to try this one is to have the man sitting down (ie on the edge of the bed, or on a sofa) and for the woman to ride him backwards this way........

SEX TIP OF THE DAY! - The 69'er!

If one of you has to be on top in the 69 position, it should always be the girl. Chances are, you are heavier than she is and allowing her to take the top position will prevent her from being crushed if the 69 session takes a while, or if you get too carried away. Another benefit of her being on top is that she can control the speed, depth and angle of penetration, so you’re less likely to accidentally gag her (this CAN happen!). Letting her have control means better oral pleasure for you.The 69 can also be done with both of you laying on your sides, which may be a more comfortable option if you plan to keep it going for a longer period of time. This way, you can use each other’s inner thighs as pillows for your heads, making the arrangement very comfy for a more drawn out 69 session.

Oral Fun......

TODAYS SEX TIP

When she's about to climax during oral sex, flick your tongue really fast along the length of her clitoris. A few seconds of this and the floor will shake for her!!


Why it works: Most men think of the clitoris as just a little bud under the hood, but it actually extends deep inside a woman's body. When you flick your tongue quickly along its shaft, you're not only covering more territory, you're also creating vibrations that help carry your stimulation beyond the tongue's reach.

How to do it: The key here is to make sure that the clitoral hood is out of the way. Don't be afraid to pull it back gently and then make quick, darting motions with your tongue as far down along the tiny shaft as your tongue can go.

Hello Hunnys!!

Sorry I have been away Darlings, but im back again now - in recompense have decided to post SEVERAL sex tips for you today....I hope you all had a good Easter......as ever.you know I love hearing from you, so please feel free to contact me hotwet666@hotmail.com if you have any queries or just fancy some chat..have a good evening......love Katy xx


SEX TIPS (LOTS!!!)

The Three Hottest Sex Positions:- The "hottest" sex positions are the best sex positions and allow both you and your partner to experience the greatest pleasure and come to an orgasm.

Men are often guilty of wanting to perform the kind of athletic, acrobatic, frequently-changing "sex position" style of intercourse they see in their favorite porn thinking that a woman will be impressed by their stamina and creativity, " THE STUD" whilst women are often guilty of going along with what the guy wants in hopes that he’s taken their pleasure into account as well. Hot Sex Positions vs. The Wrong Sex Positions

Great communication is the key to GREAT SEX - no doubt about it! And I’m not only going to lay the blame at men’s feet here, many women are still too shy and inhibited to speak up and tell the guy exactly what they need in order to feel pleasure and reach an orgasm during intercourse, often because they don’t really know.

With this in mind let’s take a look at the top three sex positions and look at how they can bring a woman greater pleasure.

Men if you find that it’s difficult to keep your erection while bringing a woman to orgasm first, than try bringing her close to an orgasm with your hand or orally first before beginning intercourse.

`Woman on Top` Sex Position
If you read men’s magazines the favorite positions in polls is “doggy style,” while in women’s magazine both men and women’s favorite position is “woman on top.” Since a large majority (60-85% depending on which poll you read) of women don’t orgasm from plain old intercourse alone I’m going to put the position that puts women in charge of what goes on first…and ladies you definitely need to step up to bat and learn how to be in the driver’s seat for this one. You KNOW what to do (if you dont, email me - hotwet666@hotmail.com and i'll happily give ya some pointers!!

Variations For Greater Pleasure
Some women don’t like to be “on top” because they feel the man gets to be too lazy and only has to lay back and watch the show. You can remedy this by having the man sit up against pillows so that it’s far easier to kiss (and fondle your breasts - a MAJOR erotic point ((well, for me it is!)) and the woman can feel more engaged with the man. The woman really does need to set the pace with this position since she’s the one with the greatest range of motion possible. If she needs greater clitoral stimulation than this position normally gives her she should arch forward and do more of a grinding motion that thrusting so that her clitoris will be rubbing up against the guys pubic bone. If she needs even more stimulation she should be brave and use her own fingers to stimulate herself while finding a rhythm that works for you both. The man can add even greater stimulation by caressing the sensitive undersides of her buttocks, or stroking her back door (make sure she’s well lubricated) or even inserting a finger into her anus (but ask permission first).

`Doggy Style` Sex Position
Men love this position because, well, it’s easy as pie and it allows us to gaze at a woman’s sexual plumbing. For many women it’s a favorite position because it can be great for “G-spot” stimulation, however, for many women men can thrust too deep and actually hit a woman’s cervix, which some women enjoy, but many find extremely painful.

Variations For Greater Pleasure
The key to successful “doggy style” intercourse again is communication. Just as the head of a man’s penis is the most sensitive, the first third of a woman’s vagina is the most sensitive and the “G-spot” isn’t down deep at the back, it’s on the front wall about a third of the way down (though it varies woman to woman) so you need to communicate with your lover to find the right thrust that works for her.
Also, the “G-spot” often needs a lot of stimulation before it “wakes up” so you need to either go down on a woman first orally and make sure she’s either had an orgasm already, or is pretty darn close, or you need to reach your hand around and give her plenty of clitoral stimulation at the same time to make sure she’s enjoying things the way you are.

The problem man and women have with “doggy style” is that it feels very impersonal. To make her feel more connected try a couple variations on the theme such as rear entry while you’re both on your knees, or standing, in front of a mirror so that there’s plenty of eye contact and you both get the visual stimulation of seeing exactly what’s going on – and guys don’t be lazy, unless a woman tells you otherwise, reach your hand around and give her clitoris the stimulation it needs. ` (I personally love standing bent over the bed with my partner standing behind me, entering me standing up - I love his hands on my hips - controlling the pace.....)

Missionary Style` Sex Position
Yes, the old standard is still a favorite for many couples because it’s one of the most intimate, but again this position only works for both parties with good communication.

Variations For Greater Pleasure
The CAT or coitus alignment technique is a way to make sure you’re lined up to give her clitoris the stimulation it needs to get its groove on. To get into position the man slides forward from his normal resting place so that the woman’s clitoris is receiving stimulation from the base of the man’s penis, also his legs should rest on the outside of her legs instead of the inside. Then rather than using a thrusting motion like you’d normally engage in the woman initiate a more gentle rocking motion, making sure her clitoris is getting the stimulation and contact it needs. The man should push down gently counter resisting the woman’s upward motion.